I imagine corresponding with, and possibly meeting someone who is interesting, has an upbeat charisma and a wicked sense of humor. Appearance is very important also, including personal hygiene and the ability to maintain a highly functioning level of organization. I find women that are shy just as attractive as those who are assertive. It all depends on your attitude and desire to get along others. I feel like family man, yet I am single with no children. Also important to me is exercise. Being fit and healthy doesn't mix with smoking. There are exceptions if course, I might find you interesting and attractive and overlook 420. I'm 49, and 30 is the youngest I usually date, but I don't always stick to that rule. (I read that half my age plus seven years is a good gauge) If you’re like me, god and religion is a useless crutch and has no bearing or impact in my life other than placating family, friends and acquaintances. I'm in Denver, if you are too and want to know more, lets get to know each other. Have a sexy day.

Lew